Ever wonder how you’re going to spend your final days on earth? What if you had the opportunity to plan out your very own perfect passing? Now, what if you had absolutely no choice? One thing that I’m certain of is that the day when I get to use my E-ZPass and head toward the white light at the end of the tunnel, and I don’t mean the Midtown, I’d like to know I left this place with dignity.. What if we celebrated the choice to die surrounded by the people we love , heck why not throw a huge party and remember all the good times, pop open that bottle of champagne and toast to a great life and even better afterlife where the party never stops!



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For the most part, we as humans have the opportunity to pick certain paths we want our lives to head towards. Lifelong partners, friends, family (the ones we can tolerate, of course), which pair of socks we want to wear in the morning, and what car we drive, are all things we have the natural born right to include in our daily life decisions. On the other hand, cancer, disease, and illness, whether acquired or born with, are not things we look forward to living with. Imagine if you were born or diagnosed with a terminal illness that promised nothing but agony and intractable pain every waking moment of your life. If the opportunity was presented, would you choose to leave this world on your own time or let it be taken from you without warning; it’d be so sudden that you may never get to say those final words to your loved ones or look into their eyes and smile one last time.



Euthanasia and physician-assisted suicide pose a threat to our modern-day society and the legalization of this practice has been a topic of debate for years. For some reason, people have an issue with the ultimate liberty and the right to die in a strategically planned setting. What if that terminal patient was promised certainty, . . . a promise that they wouldn’t have to suffer anymore, their loved ones wouldn’t see them in a state of constant emotional and physical distress, or possibly avoiding it all and choosing death sooner than later and never experiencing the deterioration of their life?



This blog wasn’t put together with the intention to offend any kind of higher power that could be believed to bring us into this world and take us out, but rather to surface the question: In the state of a grueling medical condition or birth disability, if given the right, would you choose when you wanted to die with the assistance of a trained medical professional?

Saturday, September 24, 2011

Celebrate good times come on!

Imagine a party filled with your loved ones. Every face you see you have shared good memories with. The room Is filled with nothing but laughter and tears of happiness.  Welcome to your farewell party!
Everyday we wake up not knowing if today will be our last day. If you were diagnosed with an incurable and terminal disease that only promised pain and misery until it finally took over , would you try to cheat the system and stop it in its tracks? Sure you can join hospice and just wait… and wait… and wait… But what if you were completely satisfied with the life you lived. You woke up everyday and lived it like it was your last yet unfortunately sickness still infiltrated you. Some things in life we can not control, but what if we could control our fate.
If Choosing when you want to die will probably involve a fluctuation of emotions for the patients and their loved ones.  Some may look at it as a selfish choice but then again who is being selfish? The patient who knows they are going to die, its just a matter of when or once hospitalized and dependent on mechanical ventilation medical intervention; the family member that wants to keep them around because they are not ready to let go….. Think about it.

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